These tiny vibrators pack one hell of a punch.

Matching on the queer dating app HER with the lesbian who lives next door is officially the best thing to happen to my sex life, but the Playboy Pleasure Vibrato Wand Vibrator ($136) is a very close second. As a queer woman who writes about sex, I often get my hands on the latest and greatest sex toys, so it’s hard to find a vibrator that really gets me buzzing. But this particular wand vibrator is something special. It’s not just a wand; it’s also a dildo and a rotating dildo in one, and above all, its ergonomic design makes it especially easy for me to use both with and without a partner.

In particular, the Vibrato’s long, twisting handle and flexible neck make it an ideal sex toy for people with disabilities or those who may just be feeling the ravages of time. I fall into the former camp: I’m in my mid-30s and have bilateral hip replacements and rheumatoid arthritis in my wrists, and my partner is older than me and in a similar arthritic boat. The Vibrato’s user-friendly design has allowed us to avoid the dreaded wrist flare-up or painful joint pop or crunch during sex.

The Vibrato’s user-friendly design has allowed me and my partner to avoid the dreaded wrist flare-up or painful joint pop or crunch during sex.

But make no mistake, this isn’t just a vibrator for those who might need a bit more tailored support in the bedroom. If you want a multi-functional wand vibrator that’s easy to use and allows for a slow (and super hot) build to orgasm, you won’t be disappointed with the Vibrato.